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Sheba Mubarak 3aleech il shahar

Tell me Do you have Mr.Big?

Well I used to have ms. big but she left and now searching for a new big. still i tell ya im really picky
 

3alaina o 3elaik Anonymous, thank you.

To answer your question honestly, i must say that what prompted me to right this blog is actually my investigation of whether i have a Mr. Big or not. I can answer that question when i define Mr. Big.

In my opinion Mr. Big is usually a player, and you know that he/she is a player before you get into the relationship. And his love is unattainable. This person is usually lavish in her/his lifestyle, and is older.

Now for my answer, no i do not have a Mr. Big. But i used to, and he fell out of favor because there is so much that you can take.

I think that getting rid of Ms./Mr. Big is a BIG achievement! So Bravo Anonymous, & Bravo Sheba!
 

Remember how Sarah Jessica Parker got thrilled when Mr. Big kept her toothbrush next to his?
Well, a couple of weeks ago i got the same thrill when he called to say he's leaving to Berlin on business. He actually volunteered that piece of information without me asking.

A Mr. Big is nothing but a headache..a migraine.

And, No.. a girl can hardly handle one Mr. Big.
I don't know how you're friend's doing it!

So Sheba, how did you break free?
 

Oh sheesh, Shurouq your Mr. B is the silent type, i hate that type but i must say they are attractive.

Fact: the silent type volunteer information when the person they are volunteering is NOT a GF or a potential GF or an ex GF. The more they feel that you want nothing from them, the more they open up. Trick that always works, tell him he's your friend or even best friend. For some reason, Mr. Bigs feel threatened by girls who want them, because just that notion is a commitment!

How to get rid of Mr. Bigs:
1. Realise how many other good guys are willing to be with you and give you the love & time & dignity you deserve, then you will realise the lack of dignity that you have with Mr. Big. Why should you waste your time and feelings on someone who is not wanting you back in the same way or even more than you want him??
2. Do not watch the last episode of Sex in the City! It is fictional. However, having said that, Mr. Bigs know how much you're in love with them & they feel it is eternal. So when you switch yourself off them, they will also know it & they will eventually come to you. However, that would probably be too late (unlike in Carrey's case).
 

Sheba,
I haven't seen the last episode yet, but I've heard about its so-called 'happy ending'. As you said, it is fictional & surreal.. I'm not falling for it damn it.

Thanks for the tips babe.. :) highly ppreciated
 

Shurouq, any time :)

Thegooner: great analysis thank you, i'm sure it'll do a lot of girls/women a lot of good!
 

hi Sheba:What I believe there’s one Mr.Big he’s something special when u c him he takes your breath a way…the relation ship with him is like a roller coster that doesn’t mind u have small flirts with other men but when it comes to Mr.Big anything else will b on pause وووووووووووووواي اينن
 

Sheba Unfortunately yes : (
I am trying my best to abort mission, nanonano help …mako fayda
 

Nano, its 2004. Even Mr. Bigs have shelf lives now.
 

Mosan: CUTE! Please enlighten us on your Ms. Big experience!
 

Bu Rashed, Mr. or Ms. Big?
 

Loulz, thats a HUGE compliment! Thank you :)

I'm Kuwaiti, 32, Female.
 

Sam! Waini wain il teenagers?

But thank you for the nice things said :)
 

typically i only read what bloggers write but never had the desire to reply on anything – but your post Sheba is so interesting yet i cannot come up with a definition. its something that you can only feel; to miss her silly comments, to think about her when you are in a lecture or having an exhausting meeting.

"unnecessary comment": if you think for being 32 you are shebah then people must call me grandpa!
 

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Not fair to post this comment as anonymous!

Thank you for your encouraging comments, i'm utterly flattered. Would like to see more of your particiaption, i'm sure you have a lot to say.

Clarification: I'm Sheba as the Queen of Sheba & not as in sheibah. Al7amdila tawinas 3al shaib & i'm sure you're not a grandpa either!
 

I think we can only have 1 Mr.Big in our lives. After all, that's why he's Mr.Big! Otherwise they'll just turn into Mr.Big, Mr.Bigger & Mr.Biggest.
 

I think we can only have 1 Mr.Big in our lives. After all, that's why he's Mr.Big! Otherwise they'll just turn into Mr.Big, Mr.Bigger & Mr.Biggest.
 

I believe there's only 1 Mr.Big in our lives. Otherwise they'd be known as Mr.Big, Mr.Bigger & Mr.Biggest.