Monday, September 22, 2008
Self Conscious, No More
I woke up one day very confident, and not shy.
I used to not be able to enter or walk comfortably anywhere, in a mall, office, bank, wedding, etc. I used to worry about what to do with my hands, is it rude to establish eye contact, is it expected that i smile, nod, greet? How will I greet, with a handshake, a kiss?
And one day i noticed that i was walking into a situation where i would have been normally uncomfortable, and was so at ease, and oblivious to any surrounding humans. I was confident, not shy, and i was not thinking of how to behave or act.
How and when it happened, i am not sure. But i am really glad that i grew out of that childish demeanor.
I used to not be able to enter or walk comfortably anywhere, in a mall, office, bank, wedding, etc. I used to worry about what to do with my hands, is it rude to establish eye contact, is it expected that i smile, nod, greet? How will I greet, with a handshake, a kiss?
And one day i noticed that i was walking into a situation where i would have been normally uncomfortable, and was so at ease, and oblivious to any surrounding humans. I was confident, not shy, and i was not thinking of how to behave or act.
How and when it happened, i am not sure. But i am really glad that i grew out of that childish demeanor.
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: 8:33 AM
: 8:33 AM
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There comes a point when you just finally accept and have to like yourself for yourself, the way you are and stop worrying what other people think of you. Once you do that, you stop being afraid and so self conscious.
It happened to me not too long ago too. I think I spent too much time feeling afraid and thinking I was doing everything so terribly wrong and had failed so miserably. I finally surrendered to being myself at all times and being ok with it, and it feels great :)
It happened to me not too long ago too. I think I spent too much time feeling afraid and thinking I was doing everything so terribly wrong and had failed so miserably. I finally surrendered to being myself at all times and being ok with it, and it feels great :)
# posted by : 9:02 PM
: 9:02 PM
I can't imagine you being self conscious sheebs
I think I stopped noticing myself.. not sure if it's a good or bad thing.. but I get that from trying to multitask
start looking forward to "awkward" scenarios and turn them into performances.. you'll end up looking forward to stepping out of your comfort zone
I think I stopped noticing myself.. not sure if it's a good or bad thing.. but I get that from trying to multitask
start looking forward to "awkward" scenarios and turn them into performances.. you'll end up looking forward to stepping out of your comfort zone
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sooooooooooooooo true!
I used to tremble at times when I enter a wedding qa3a and everybody stared at me (ma3ene I find no problem giving talks to 50+ people at work; I think I hated it when the audience is only girls - too many BI*CHES)
anyways I turned everything into a joke and made it my aim to look for moments to laugh at; laugh at myself aw others
it's a FUN game to play!!!!!! sert a good company:))))))) HEHE :P
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sooooooooooooooo true!
I used to tremble at times when I enter a wedding qa3a and everybody stared at me (ma3ene I find no problem giving talks to 50+ people at work; I think I hated it when the audience is only girls - too many BI*CHES)
anyways I turned everything into a joke and made it my aim to look for moments to laugh at; laugh at myself aw others
it's a FUN game to play!!!!!! sert a good company:))))))) HEHE :P
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