Sunday, October 10, 2004

Breasts or Territory

Couldn't decide which to write about, but since i would probably not be able to write for the next 2-3 days, might as well write about both.

Yesterday we were having a conversation about breasts at my grandmother's house. It turned funny because i was making fun at the different shapes and sizes of my aunts'. When i left i was wondering what makes breasts so errotic to men, yet they can be a source of comedy and/or agony to women.

As to Territory, what are the rules for guys when dating a friend's ex girlfriend/husband? What is the decorum for girls and dating a friend's ex girlfriend/husband?!




Comments:
Well men don't have boobs so we only get to spend very little time with them.

Well for guys dating and ex of another guy its strange. Either its ok but the guy wanting to date has to explain his intentions and get permission first or he doesn't date at all. You see it revolves around the relationship the orignal relationship had and how they broke up and if they are any remaining feelings.

I am not sure how it works for girls cause I dont have boobs...
 
1- Not 2 small or 2 big and have 2 be pointy
2- shouldnt date the ex's of your friends if you have any feelings for your freinds.
 
Sheba,

I do not what to say about the first part on what went on in your grandmother's house, am just amazed :) shocked? not really, but amazed, you know that face with a smile, yet not a smile, eyes open, yet not wide open, you know amazed but not shocked.. yes that face .

I have one rule, which I never ever would break. Never date (befriend, and anything else) an ex. of a male friend, never date (same as before) a relative of a female friend. For several reasons.

1. It is not fair for the other party, even if the break-up was mutual, it is not polite and does not take into consideration their feelings.

2. By looking elsewhere, assuming you want to, you would not think much about the past, and focus on the future. Because if you go with someone who is connected to a friend or relative, the past never leaves and stays stuck inside your chest.

3. You can ruin a friendship or a good relationship between your ex. and their friends. It is not worth it, no matter who the person is, to mess with their lives. If one life is ruined (assuming the break-up was bad), why ruin two (breaking up their friendship)?

Maybe there are more reasons, or maybe the reasons I mentioned might not be important for most, but to me, they form the basis for any relationship I have with anyone, and I have abided by it, even when temptation is around the corner.
 
Chocolates, you know already my opnion on that, and I still stick to what I said.

Those are my rules, but might not apply to everyone of course
 
Spoken like an expert :)
 
All Ive got to say is....

All is "Fair" in Love and War....
 
Capital W Capital O Capital W!

Breasts are really popular i guess!

Thank you all, old & new and big welcome to new commentators!
 
Breasts are just beatiful. Just love falling asleep with my face buried in em. Might be something to do with when we were nursing. Am sure if I could recall
I was always happy and contented when they were around.
 
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